School Projects

One of our big projects for school was moving the school room downstairs. Previously, we had been using the downstairs living area as a master bedroom. It was the only way we could sleep near the kids. But we decided with a baby monitor and kids that usually sleep through the night it didn’t matter that much. The upstairs attic room makes an awesome master bedroom, and the downstairs living area makes an awesome school room. It was a good move. (Minus the occasional two-flight of stairs in the middle of the night to adjust Mr. C’s blankets and tell him to go back to sleep.)

Now we can paint on already paint-stained tile:

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I’ve been picking red a lot to paint with it, and I have no idea why. It reminds me far too much of blood and has the greatest tendency to stain. I do like only giving the kids one color to paint with, it is just a little more simple.

The kids also made a cool hat with piper cleaners and a colander.

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Now Mr. C is going to time travel past his whiny, crying far too often stage. (Or I can hope. He is a sweet kid, just recently he is discovering he wants things he can’t get and he doesn’t like it.) Speaking of wanting things, nothing gets the kids into the kitchen like announcing that I am making cookies. They love, adore, and nearly worship cookies. Here is Mr. C covered in cookie dough.

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One final picture of a contact paper collage. The collage was worked and re-worked for a couple of weeks. PB is now old enough to cut out his own shapes too.

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Snowshoeing

I don’t know if we will be able to convince PB to go snowshoeing again. We decided to go on a quick hike Saturday. I had noticed a small side canyon barely up Perry Canyon that looked perfect for a bit of snowshoeing. So we went. We tend to go up very steep hills while snowshoeing. Inaccessible hills in the summer are changed by the snow, and small deer tracks are the perfect snowshoeing trails. PB wasn’t so sure going up the side of a mountain was fun…it was more terrifying. But he hung on to me and made it up and back down the steep slope, even if a few tears were shed. I was enjoying myself immensely, it was beautiful day.

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On the way back was the worst part. He fell in a puddle soaking his boots and feet, and most of his pants. Luckily we were almost back to the car.

Ice Castles

I’ve watched this video a lot, and when I saw that they had ice castles a half hour away from my grandparents, I had to go. Great place for some good pictures and fun exploring.

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This sad little boy had cold hands. Luckily Mom had better gloves for him. ice

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The kids were amazed at the ice lighting up with different colors when it started to get dark. 
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PB did try to eat much of the ice. And the really gross snow on the ground. mom pandaThere wasn’t a panda there…just my sister in her panda hat.

 

 

Mr. C

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This is a bit on Mr. C. He has been good at making good stories for his mom to tell lately.
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When I had a bunch of family over, C destroyed a roll. I had to vacuum that up. Soon after he pulled out all the games upstairs. I even had put the game shelf in the closet to avoid such messes, but he was a having a blast in the closet that someone else opened up for him.

I ignored the mess until the next day. While I went up and cleaned up all the games, PB came up and informed me that C was making a big mess. (I’ve asked him to tell me.) He had emptied sprinkles all over the dining room and stairs.

I vacuumed that all up, and was just about done when I looked over and there he was with a ripped cereal bag spreading cereal all over the hall. The little vacuum was very full when I was done. He finished out the morning with a very full diaper.
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At a final family Christmas party, C was very easy to get to come eat. I showed up with a brownie and he shouted,  “Cake, cookie!” and came running. Later on, I found him with seven cookies in a bowl, all excited and ready to eat. He is a little cookie monster, but I’m glad he’s not picky and eats just about anything. Joe made some cookie dough and left it in the fridge. I have gone around the corner into the kitchen several times to find him sitting on the floor with the bowl between his legs eating as much cookie dough as he can. He was very distraught over the makeshift fridge lock soon after. 
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C will say, “Watch this,” or more like “Waashiss”,  before doing a little stunt–going down a slide, jumping on the bed. It is cute. He copied PB, as PB does it all the time. I don’t mind the invitation to watch.
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C got out the potty and wipes and said poopy. He sat on their for a while. Ten minutes later after his diaper was back on he actually pooped. I think this kids is going to be much easier to potty train that PB who took until he was over 3.5

Widespread Ecological Design

So this post doesn’t necessary apply to my normal audience, but the thoughts were up in my brain, so I’m writing them out anyway.

I’ve recently began studying permaculture, which has been very fascinating to me. Permaculture is ecological design, or fitting human needs into natural systems. In the garden, I like to focus on systems and problem solving. I’ve never quite been a plant enthusiast, as many gardeners are. Permaculture is a good fit for me. But a main problem with permaculture is it can get complicated, and hence will not be for an average landscape owner.

What we do see in average landscape is a bunch of lawn, hopefully some trees, and maybe a small mixed bed and vegetable garden patch. It works, but it isn’t particularly attractive, low maintenance or ecologically friendly.  I don’t see many people outside because, in addition to other reasons, of the boredom and lack of functionality of a normal landscape.

I think the layout of our landscapes has been greatly determined by what facets of the industry have been simplified effectively. Lawn care is not in actuality simple–I took an entire collage course about it. But the industry has simplified the process with readily available sod, four-step fertilizer programs, and an abundance of lawn care companies. Simplification has transformed lawn into the landscape solution of choice…if you’ve got empty ground you plant grass. One plant (not really, but that’s what people see), one set of maintenance tasks  embraced by big box stores, and a multitude of resources available. Lawn care isn’t necessarily simple, but by portraying at such, it has enabled the saturation of lawn care products, and maintenance and chemical companies that keep prices cheap, and help easy to find.

Lawn is useful, but the unworthy of the monopolistic  role it has in our landscapes. Other options exist, but now require a lot of effort for an average homeowner. It usually requires quite of bit of work and research, it costs more, and maintenance isn’t as clear cut. What often happens is a what could have been a beautiful mixed border ends up a weedy patch of unwanted plants and dead flowers.

I love ecological methods like permaculture, rain gardens, wildlife gardens, natives, edible landscaping, xeriscaping, and forest gardening. There are thousands of beautiful, durable and useful plants all ready to create amazing landscapes. But until the industry simplifies such methods, they will never catch on past the garden enthusiast.

One way where I have actually seen a garden method catch on is square foot gardening. It simplified the implementation and maintenance of a vegetable garden. I don’t agree with everything in square foot gardening, but it is an example to others wanting to push for new methods in landscaping. Simplify it, make it applicable to everyone, and perhaps even a product to be sold at big box stores.

Although it would be nice if people turned to landscape professionals and independent garden centers when they needed landscaping, it doesn’t happen. In my mind I should be very busy doing garden consultations, helping people understand the diverse and wonderful word of landscapes and gardening, but I’m not. Most people aren’t interested in horticulture, they just want cheap quick fixes so their landscapes aren’t weed patches.

If we want wide scaled changes in the landscape we have to simplify ecological design, and make it approachable for everyone including those that want cheap, quick fixes.

Endnote for average person: If you are someone who would like to get away from traditional lawn and move toward ecological design or simply something lower maintenance and beautiful, go for it and know that there are lots of resources out there if you look past the basic big box store. It isn’t higher maintenance or more expensive, just different. 

2013 in Review

Here are some of my favorite pictures from this year:

  • Joe passed his board exam and found a job working as a Physical Therapist in the nursing homes.
  • We moved in February, after a couple of months at my Grandparents.
  • PB finally caught on to using the toilet. He also started to learn to read, and became an avid fan of numbers and unanswerable questions.
  • Mr. C learned to walk and started to talk. He also started sleeping through the night. Currently he loves balls, and trying to be like his big brother.
  • Spent lots of time at home doing various art projects, learning activities, and playing outside.
  • Made lots of new friends and spent lots of time with family.
  • Grew a mildly successful vegetable garden.
  • Didn’t go on vacation, except a small trip to Nevada to see my sister, and a one night camp out.
  • Had a few garden design clients, also updated/worked on a lot of my resources, and started studying permaculture.
  • Bought a house, three blocks from our old apartment. And we love it.

Being

I had a rough time for a few weeks. I liked my life, but felt a little down. I wasn’t depressed, I was just tired of the same things and facing the same problems, and not being able to keep a good attitude as much as I wanted. But one day, I received a nugget of good thought, that I needed.

Think of who you want to be, not what you want to do.

I focus a lot on tasks. What I’ve done, what I’m going to do. As I’m thinking about all the things which I need to get done, and then turn around and repeat the next day, it is discouraging. Doing things, often very repetitive things, is both boring and exhausting.

But focusing on being someone great is exciting. Trying to follow Christ’s example of peace and charity, trying to be a better person with His help, makes life mean more. What matters in this life isn’t what goals I accomplish, it is the person that I become.

So the kids are not wanting to go to bed at bedtime. Instead of getting mad because it is bedtime, and they must go to bed, I think of how I want to be a good mother, how I want my children to obey me because they love me. We took a magic couch ride to several volcanoes, dinosaurs, and a train station. And when the kids started to wrestle me (boys are like that), I ran away from them and trapped them in “cages” which were their beds. I wasn’t focused on just tasks, on getting them to bed. I wanted to be a good person, and it meant not getting mad, it meant having fun, creating games. It wasn’t exhausting. It was liberating, so much easier than fighting with them to get to bed.

My focus needs to change, so my thoughts are focused on striving to be the best person I can, the person I want to be. That’s not accomplishing a million things. For my life, it can be accomplishing little but snuggles and games. It is about being present and enjoying life, not for what can be checked off at the end of the day, but for the joy that comes in just living.

Sledding

I love our town. There are great sledding hills and snow. And when you go out sledding on a Saturday morning, there’s only a few people out. We went with some friends. Incidentally, last year, just a week after we moved here, we went sledding at the park, and this same family was there. Didn’t know each other then, but I thought they looked like a fun family, and now we know each other quite well. Smallish towns are fun, I like to bump into people over and over.

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I got this picture through a window after PB was playing by himself outside for awhile. He was sitting in a fresh snow angel eating snow, I love kids happily playing by themselves. Sometimes it needs to be documented, as a reminder that they are not dependent upon me for everything.