Patience

While studying permaculture, the biggest change that I’ve found in my garden design approach is patience.

I don’t have a landscape plan for my house. I have ideas, but nothing else. My husband brings up possible problems, design ideas, and I just think, “We’ll see.”

Permaculture is all about observing. I’ve only been here a few months, most of which has been in the dead of winter. I can’t plan everything yet–I don’t know the sun angle in relation to the trees in the summer and exactly what areas get full sun or full shade. I don’t know how the irrigation water will run, what areas will be more wet or dry. I don’t know what weeds grow where, and I haven’t dug around in the soil that much.

I could guess, make a plan. I’ve done it all the time, because I don’t have the luxury of sitting on client’s work for months at a time. But with my home, where nothing is pressing, I’m content to wait and observe for a year before I start finalizing plans and ripping out grass or seed meadows. I will do some things: take away what I know I don’t want, start some cover crops, and provide play areas for my children. I’m still planting a vegetable garden. But I’m not in a hurry to order a bunch of fruit trees and start building raised beds.

What I’ve found while observing, is that the first design ideas get tossed away, modified, and mostly improved. New ideas come, and because everything is still flexible, I can incorporate them easily. Problems in the landscape aren’t horrible, because I have yet to determine what everything will be and can easily adjust. Waiting is a good thing.

 

 

Gnarly Stump Removal

We cut down the shrubs in the fall, but their ugly stumps remained above the ground all winter. I wasn’t opposed to leaving them and letting them decay on their own…but my husband (Joe) knew this was a less than ideal situation, and so we started digging. And digging some more. The stumps remained firmly rooted. I gave up and told Joe to get them out.

So one day Joe bought a long metal tool home after work. (I’m not exactly sure what to call it, or what it is actually designed for. It is simply a long, sturdy metal pole that has a sharp side and a flat side.) Joe rides his bike to work, so somehow he managed to bring a heavy, six foot long pole home while riding a bike.

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Within fifteen minutes, one stump was gone, and the rest soon followed. We are left with beautiful planting beds, that have been naturally tilled by roots and have the added organic matter of many years of needle shed. I’ve already planted one with peas, lettuce, radishes and a few herbs.

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Someone Had a Birthday

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I love this kid. He just keeps getting cuter the older he gets. And now he’s two!

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We enjoyed a visit to the train museum/mode train festival in Ogden too. Mr. C loved it. He managed to derail a train too, after falling down on top of it.
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Apperance

My appearance has been something I have been thinking about for a while. I stumbled across this website (which I explored but did not purchase anything). I had Curly Girl suggested to me and subsequently went out and bought and read it. I looked at two other books on clothes, and spent a lot of time pondering what I wore and how I looked.

Part of me was enthralled that I could actually study how to look good. I was a nerd in high school, and I was never quite comfortable with how I looked. To re-study fashion/style was a lot of fun, thinking about how I could actually look great if I wanted to.

But after a few weeks of thinking about it, I realized that I liked how I look. While studying style, I started to want to fix something that just wasn’t broken. I like my clothes, my hair, my make-up and ultimately had no desire to change them all.

I’m not even close to fashionable. But I also do not go around in my pajamas. I strike a nice medium: I do go around in clothes that I don’t mind dirt and spit on (as a homemaker and avid gardener, I get a lot of both). But I still feel cute and not frumpy in what I wear.

I will never fit in with my looks. Being a gawky 6’1″, with short curly hair ensures that. But I’m learning it is better to be true to myself and what I like than trying please other people.

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Snapshot of the Living Room

Welcome to the living room. This is the room in our house where we spend the most amount of time. I prefer to keep it pretty simple to allow for the influx of toys, people and stuff. I love bright green and used it as the bases of most of the design.

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We have it set up withe the couches back to back, creating two separate spaces in the area. It allows for the functions we want, and also creates a fun space to jump and dive between couches. After all, I do have two small boys and the more spaces they have to keep moving the better.

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The total budget for this space is just under $1300. That includes two couches, two computer desks, shelf, two chairs, side table, wall decorations, two area rugs, and the Ficus tree.

Preschool Master List

I read a lot of kid activity blogs and other preschool related things…I decided to bring a lot of what I read and pull it together in a large category list. Here it is. Feel free to comment if you want any elaborations.

Sensory

  • dough like
  • water/liquid
  • dry goods
  • texture materials
  • smelling
  • tasting
  • hearing

Build

  • blocks, tower
  • legos
  • tracks

Fine Motor:

  • re-fill and empty
  • cutting
  • snaps/buttons
  • string
  • sewing

Gross Motor:

  • sports
  • exercise
  • movement

Matching and Categorizing

  • colors
  • shapes
  • puzzles
  • size
  • location

Art

  • collage (contact paper)
  • markers
  • crayons
  • watercolor
  • tempura paint
  • chalk
  • glue and paper
  • photography
  • cutting/paper folding
  • sculpting/constructing

Language

  • read-to
  • identify to read
  • writing letters
  • spelling words
  • constructing stories

Imaginative

  • small worlds
  • dress-up
  • mimic/pretent

Music

  • listen
  • create
  • dance

Math:

  • recognize numbers
  • count
  • arithmetic

Social Studies:

  • follow directions
  • interact with others
  • games
  • geography
  • history

Practical Life:

  • time
  • care of self
  • care of environment

Science

  • experiments
  • cooking
  • botany
  • zoology

Truth is Aboslute

We believe in absolute truth, including the existence of God and the right and wrong established by His commandments. We know that the existence of God and the existence of absolute truth are fundamental to life on this earth, whether they are believed in or not. We also know that evil exists and that some things are simply, seriously, and everlastingly wrong…

The philosophy of moral relativism, which holds that each person is free to choose for him or herself what is right and wrong, is becoming the unofficial creed for many in the United States and other Western nations.  —Dallin H. Oaks, from this talk.

Morality should not change with the times. The way I think about this, some things have always been good. Telling the truth, being kind, raising children with both a father and a mother. Just because I might think differently, doesn’t make things less wrong or right. There is an absolute truth, a defining of right and wrong that never changes.

In my life, I have tried to live to achieve absolute goodness. I’m not even close to achieving it, but I try. Can you really be too good? I never want to give up my pursuit, or even worse change my thoughts about what is right and wrong.

There have been times in my life when I wanted to give up and run away from the stupidly hard perfect life I was trying to live. I wanted to go away from what I knew was good and right, because it wasn’t exactly what I expected. I didn’t, and I am so glad. I wanted to run from my family, and that is the very thing that has brought me the most joy.

There is an absolute truth of family–and I firmly believe that every child has a right to a mother and father and a good home.

There is absolute truths of goodness, decency, truthfulness, kindness.

It doesn’t matter if I feel differently, it doesn’t change the fact that right is right and wrong is wrong.

If I am creating individuality, defining myself,  it will only work if I also hold true to the principles of goodness, truth, and right. To lack a moral compass is like lacking a compass. You don’t get anywhere. I look at many celebrities lives, even the lives of the people around me. If they pull away from right and decent behavior, they start being defined for the inappropriate behavior, instead of being defined for who they are.

This is a short series outlying the fundamental beliefs I have. For more see:
Conscience
Redeemed

Pruning

I love to prune. This year had the added benefit of sharp pruning tools. I didn’t buy new tools, just sharpened the ones I had. The wet stone I bought years ago finally got some use. And I attempted grafting the first time outside of a class. We’ll see if the grafts take. I could put in some how-to, but if you want to prune go to a pruning demonstration. It will be far more beneficial than anything I could write.  As for the sharping and grafting, I watched online videos. Even thought I do remember learning it in school, I don’t actually remember the details.

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The only downside is all the pruning and grafting was none of it was on my own property.