End of Summer

Summer break is a wrap. We went to Highland Glen and caught bluegill, played at a few parks, took a nature walk up American Fork Canyon, and went on a longer trip to Mirror Lake (like actually Mirror Lake, not a stop along the Mirror Lake Highway). We also visited the Museum of Utah (I recommend visiting, and you can combine it with the state capitol and Pioneer Memorial Museum), and had a couple more visits to Thanksgiving Point and Lagoon. Football season has started again for Curtis, and Henry has joined a scout troop. Zack had a birthday and took his friends to the pool.

The kids have started school again (except for Evie, who will start preschool in a few weeks). We are happy to be back in a routine; all my kids like school pretty well.

Now there’s been some other dramatic news. Curtis was fishing off the deck, checking his setup. Henry walked by, grabbed the line, Curtis yanked on it, and in a freak accident, the giant weight on it hit Henry in the eyeball. It caused quite a bit of damage and has resulted in trips to the ER and the ophthalmologist.

Joe has also been dealing with a herniated disc in his neck since last November. It’s caused some pretty bad pain and numbness. It’s sometimes gotten better, but never all the way, and symptoms come back worse. So he’s going to have surgery to have a disc replacement in a couple of weeks.

Also, something I’ve never mentioned is I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer back in May. I had surgery to remove my thyroid in June (a week before our vacation), and have been recovering from that and adjusting to thyroid medication. I’ve been tired, but I’ve been doing okay. I’m starting to feel pretty normal again. The surgery went well, and potentially got all the cancer. I’ll have radioactive iodine treatment later next month to prevent recurrence.

To sum it all up: we have a good chance of reaching our out-of-pocket maximum for our health insurance this year. Hopefully we are all healthy and happy soon, and we are surviving and doing okay despite it all.

Discovering Magic

Have you ever felt magic in your life? When I met my sister at a trailhead, we’d often pull up at the exact same time. Often, when I’m filling my pill container with vitamins, I’ll dump exactly seven out without counting. I’ve texted a friend about something exactly when they were going to text me about the same thing.

It feels like the universe is all coming together to get you exactly what you want.

But there’s more to it than magic. I recently watched this video about four-leaf clovers. The world record holder has a magical ability to find four-leaf clovers. Except it really isn’t magic: she’s done it so much that it is simply a skill she’s developed.

Magic isn’t something special that happens to you. The universe doesn’t have unknowable magic. Sometimes things work out, but sometimes they don’t. People make choices; things happen, regardless of what you want. But there is an ability to foster a sense of magic or serendipity. This comes from intuitively acting on a base of knowledge, experience, and reflection.

Intuition that feels like magic only comes after participating in active learning. The reason I can show up at the trailhead at the exact same time as my sister is that I use GPS directions to get timing and I know her habits. I can get a good feel of when we’ll show up at the same time from past experience and the knowledge I look up. It requires some study and practice. Other experiences are similar: it’s things I’ve done many times, and I learn from past experiences.

New experiences are not magical. They are hard. It’s a learning phase, where you don’t have much experience to draw from. To get it to feel magical, you need to engage in active learning so you have that experience to draw on.

Active learning requires learning from others, trying it out, and reflecting on how it went. If it’s a new experience, you can use related experiences to start somewhere above zero. Active learning is finding the patterns in something so you can recognize them more easily later. Active learning leads to experience, which leads to intuition, and that can result in magic in your life.

So sometimes in life, things feel pretty magical, but it’s more a matter of being able to draw from past experience and active learning to gain that feeling. Other times, I would like an experience to feel magical, but the situation is new and challenging. I have to put in the time to learn and gain experience before it’s going to feel magical.

Family Time

We had a family trip to Wyoming. We started by river tubing in the Green River. I went down on my paddleboard with Evie and a cousin, and we wiped out in a rapid. Everyone was wearing a life jacket; the only thing that didn’t survive was my paddle. The family trip was a lot of fun with a trip to the Killpecker sand dunes, South Pass City, swimming, and boating at Flaming Gorge. It was exhausting to: I was there without my husband and two oldest children because they had work and sports.

We also took a short fishing trip to Strawberry Reservoir. Not many fish were caught, but it was beautiful, and we had a good time. I had a birthday during all that. I got a tenkara rod and paddleboard, both of which I already had, but they were ruined on our last vacation. The paddleboard was in a tow-hitch carrier and melted because of exhaust, and the rod was snapped accidentally by kids. I love paddleboarding and tenkara fishing and sometimes combining them together.

Summer Vacation 2026

We started off by driving to Rifle Gap to the lake, which was low but still pretty. Curtis caught a pike, the little kids swam, and Peter read. We camped the next couple of nights at Rifle Falls State Park, which has an amazing waterfall and caves.

Our next day of vacation was spent at Glenwood Caverns Adventure Park. There’s a gondola up to the park, and it has a couple of small cave tours, which were pretty cool, and a variety of rides. Our favorite rides were the alpine coaster and the swings that swing over the mountain. It’s not the best theme park, but it’s very unique with the location. We left for lunch at a park, but otherwise spent nearly the whole day there. We stopped by South Canyon Hot Spring on the way back to the campground.

On day 3, we went up the street to the Rifle Fish Hatchery, which is open to visitors, and you can feed the fish. Next, we went and hiked Hanging Lake. It was a beautiful hike, but kind of a disaster in execution. Evie refused to hike. We ended up splitting up, but when we split up, we didn’t make sure everyone had water. It all worked out; everyone but Evie did make it to the lake. We drove over to Golden Gate Canyon State Park for another night of camping.

Day 4 started with a quick stop for fishing and the nature walk at the Visitor’s Center. We had some extra time to kill in Denver. We ended up at Pacho Sanchez Park, which has a really unique playground, and Chatfield State Park to spend some time cooling off in the water.

Our main objective in Denver was to see the Rockies game with fireworks after. It was a very fun way to celebrate the 4th of July. Our tickets allowed us to go down to the field for the fireworks show. It was crowded, and we didn’t get back to our hotel until midnight, but it was awesome.

The next day, we stopped by my sister’s in Laramie for lunch and went home. It was a great low-key vacation.

Make Time for Fun

I’ve been quite motivated lately to do the things I want and often don’t take time for. I’ve gone fishing (I’m slowly learning to fly fish), gone out on the lake on the paddleboard, Tiny Tot Triathlon with the little kids, gone to the temple, the park, had friends and cousins over, gone to the gardens at Thanksgiving Point, went to Lagoon with just my husband so we could ride all the more extreme rides we can’t with little kids, hiked five miles to Silver Lake with Curtis and Henry, and went on a 20 mile bike ride to Bluffdale.

Highlights: I’ve now done all the rides at Lagoon. Colossus might be my favorite: no line, love the loops. But there’s a good variety of rides there. We fished up at Silver Lake, and Curtis said it was the prettiest place he’s ever fished at.

Lowlights: Our goal destination was a splash pad for the bike ride. It wasn’t open when we got there. And we ran out of battery on the way back. Also, it’s been hot and smoky.

I’ve found that the reason I don’t do things is often not because of a lack of time, but a lack of determination. You make it work when you really want to do it.

Summer Bang

Summer started off quickly. Our first adventure was an overnight trip for Joe and me to Fifth Water Hot Springs. Beautiful place, and worth the five-mile hike in the mud.

Joe and I were then in charge of Trek for our ward. (Translation: It’s a reenactment of handcart pioneers done by our church youth group.) It was a lot of planning and work, but not as much as it could be. We kept it simple and went to This is the Place for their program. After, we did a ward campout. It was a great experience, and I’m also happy it’s over.

Summer so far has been parks, library, fishing, playing in the backyard pool, watching excessive TV, basketball camps, space center camp, and work.

Abundant Life

We’ve been fishing some more, and fish have been caught. Not by me, but by Curtis, who loves fishing. He even went off on the bike by himself to catch some fish when he was bored. I’ve enjoyed a few hikes for wildflowers and waterfalls. The native flowers in my own yard are doing great as well.

There’s been a lot of time spent at Lagoon. We’ve already paid for the Lagoon passes and then some. Amusement parks are more fun in small doses.

We finished up the school year. Zack lost his first tooth and finished up soccer, and Peter’s done well in basketball tournaments. And we have also been building a DIY stock tank hot tub that is nearly complete, just in time for summer vacation.

Spring

Beautiful days of spring that are full of bipolar weather, and time for outdoor fun. We visited Red Butte Gardens and tried fishing out on Utah Lake (no fish were caught). And I hiked to Horsetail Falls with my sister.

Spring Break

Easter week was nice. I did activities throughout the week, like dying eggs, flying kites, stopping by the Lindon temple open house, and learning about Jesus. We ended with a family Easter egg hunt and General Conference. On Easter, we also took off and traveled down to Mesquite for a mini-vacation. We swam at the hotel, ate fast food, played at an arcade, and watched TV. There was a good amount of chill time for a few days.

But I never plan that much chill time. Monday, we visited the Valley of Fire. Gorgeous park, especially if you get out on the trails. The kids weren’t enthusiastic about it because of how hot it was. (Mid 80’s for the high, which isn’t that hot, but I think we are still used to winter.)

The next day, we hiked Kanarra Falls. It requires a permit and some fore-planning because you walk through water through a good portion of the trail. Neoprene socks kept the feet from freezing, and I did carry Evie for the back half of the trail. All that said, Peter called it the best hike he’d ever been on, and it’s definitely in my top handful of hikes I’ve done as well. Beautiful slot canyons, multiple waterfalls, and at four miles round trip, it wasn’t too long. The pictures don’t do it justice: there are four separate waterfalls, and huge towering slot canyons.

The rest of spring break was spent doing smaller activities around home, like the park, library, and a short trip to Lagoon at the end.

It’s Already April

I was a bit buried in March. My business started up a bit. I’m mostly waiting for my landscape contractor license to go through so I can do some installs this spring. I did have a couple of projects to keep me busy, though, and started on garden maintenance. The flowers came out, and we had record-breaking hot temperatures. There’s been track, kids play, and basketball. And annoying things like chores, check-ups. For fun, a bike ride, a fishing trip, a jet lag game in Daybreak, and going out to Thanksgiving Point occasionally. We’ve been working on preparing for Trek, which is two months away (I’m basically in charge…). And finally, a trip to the opening day of Lagoon, where we did lose a kid, but not for long. We have season tickets there this year, so we’ll go back and try not to lose anyone next time.