New Baby

Well, after waiting several hours with no progression in labor, I was started on pitocin. Within about two hous, I was holding my brand new baby boy. I conviently forgot how much labor can hurt, but luckily it went fast for me. Pushing was nice and fast–my midwife was in a bit of a rush we almost missed her. We all made it home Sunday afternoon.

I feel super great now. I love being able to be a mom all over again. Peter is being a great big brother. He’s mostly excited about baby Curtis, but is also learning the need to be soft. My husband has been a tremendous help–couldn’t do it without him.

Curtis is doing great. And you probably want to see him, so here’s some pictures:

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Converstion

“Hi Peter”

“Hi! Eh doing?”

“I’m at the hospital. I’m going to have a baby.”

“Oh, great.”

“How are you?”

“I’m playing with my butterfly”

“Have you had breakfast?”

“Mommy have baby”

“Do you want to come to the hospital and see baby today?”

“Yeah, great…..Bye Bye!”

Not bad for a two year old. He sounds excited. Now I have to just convince the other one that my water broke and that means you are supposed to come out now. Not move around and bide your time! Starting pitocin to hopefully get some progression here…

Tornadoes

I have a first. The tornado siren went off in the area, and I realized that I frankly had no idea what to do in the event of a tornado warning. Go in a basement or bathroom and wait it out? We weren’t’ that worried about it, and it was bedtime. Peter was already asleep. So all we did was make sure all the windows were closed.

I was also thinking how it would be interesting to go into labor and have to venture out into the storm. And then I woke up at 1:00 in the morning and my water broke, so away we went. It was rainy but not bad. Now I am awaiting the birth of little one.

Stone Mountain

We’ve been eyeing this hike for quite some time. It’s the closest “mountain” to where we live, although by Rocky Mountain standards, it’s pretty puny. A Saturday finally presented itself that wasn’t rainy, cold, or otherwise occupied so we headed out.

Peter hiked almost the whole 1.3 miles up. We took a lot of breaks and went very slowly. (It took us around two hours to walk one mile. Very slow pacing.) This also helped the very pregnant me make it too. Joe did carry Peter the last few hundred yards. It was pretty windy and cold up top, so we didn’t stay long. It was a fun hike, and I’d like to go back to the park after baby comes and go on some other trails as well.

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I’m full term today. I even included a picture of me and my belly recently. I have really no idea when baby is coming…but hopefully it all goes alright when it does come. I’m losing motivation to do about anything… certainly not start any new projects, and I’m ignoring the few I have already started. Mostly I’m running after toddler, sleeping, reading a little, and keeping everyone well fed. And waiting and wondering….

Spring Pictures

I took these pictures at a few parks in the area and at the LDS Atlanta Temple grounds over the last couple weeks. Spring is fun. I’ll get excited when I see something new blooming and announce it to whoever is in the car, “Hey look, that Magnolia is just starting to bud out!” My two-year old, who I usually drive with, is going to be quite a good plant identifier. It’s a wonderful time of year–I simply wish I lived around better gardens to enjoy it!

Woody Plants

I’m trying to get up on my knowledge of woody plants in the area. I pulled out my woody plant book, which is Dirr’s Hardy Trees and Shrubs. I crossed an invisible line in my travels. Most trees and shrubs I see are not in this book. I needed the companion book: Dirr’s Trees and Shrubs for Warm Climates. I proceeded to check it out from the library. So far I’ve made it through the introduction and looked up one plant.  The intro was very fascinating to me since it’s about Dirr’s Georgia garden, and I’m now in the same area. I found out the botanical name for a crape myrtle (it’s …Lagerstroemia). I had no idea before, even though crape myrtles are nearly as common as bark mulch.  I managed to get a horticulture degree without learning any plants that are used in warmer climates. Now I’m able to happily increase my knowledge.

A library copy of this kind of book will prove to be insufficient, but I’ve wanted to buy this book for a while. However, recently they released the new Dirr’s Encyclopedia of Trees and Shrubs.
I could go ahead and buy both, but it appears that the new book is mostly a compilation of the previous two Dirr woody books. This makes a lot of sense in my mind, and here’s why:

The invisible line in Dirr’s two book was going from a zone six to a zone seven. There’s no reason really to divide the zones like this, so I’m happy to see that they combined the books. I’m only half a zone apart from where I moved from: a 7b to a 7a. I’m wondering if things like a loropetalum wouldn’t grow well in many Utah landscapes: at a zone seven they are supposed to be cold hardy.  But I’m also still not sold that going off and planting a myriad of zone seven plants is wise. Like I said in this post I’ve seen winter damage on zone 5/6 plants.

There are other factors going on too. Like rhododendrons and azaleas still don’t make it far past garden center shelves before suffering a quick death due to alkaline soils. (Why they are on garden center shelves is beyond me. I once tried to convince someone in a hardware store they really didn’t want to buy that azalea…it would shortly die. It didn’t go over so well since I was just buying screws, and the associate in the garden center thought it was a good choice. I have yet to see an established azalea in a Utah landscape…)  Not only are winters more mild in Georgia, but acidity and humidity play a huge role in the plant pallet.

The native plant pallet that should be drawn upon and used frequently will be different as well. I also believe in regional gardening…Georgia is a great place for woodland gardens. Utah (at least to me) caters to dry desert and mountain alpines. So when I’m done in Georgia I might have a whole new list of landscape plants…but I’m not necessarily in a hurry to go ahead and plant them in Utah.

But I really do need to go and buy that new Dirr book, one way or the other.

Yoga

I love  yoga. This morning I was feeling kinda down. So I decided to take a whole hour and do an entire yoga class. I picked a restorative class. The hardest pose was downward facing dog. Most of it was done lying down. Exactly what I needed: it helped stretch out my aching back muscles and helped me be happier.

I practice yoga nearly every morning. I’ll wake up, read my scriptures and then spend a half hour, usually completly by myself, to do yoga. I often split hour long classes into two mornings because I feel a half hour is just enough. I’ve actually been doing yoga pretty consistently since I graduated from college. It’s my favorite from of exercise and by the far the one I’ve stuck with through everything.

Yoga is supposed to make you more flexible. It does. But it has also taken me five years to be to the point where I can touch my toes regularly. I’m far from flexible in many areas of my body. I think flexibility takes more time than any other aspect of fitness. The one thing that I like about yoga is it is very non-comptetive. You don’t push past the pain. So sometimes it takes a little longer to increase in fitness level than other methods. But I’m also hardly ever more than minorly sore, which is very nice and one reason I’ve stuck with it.

Yoga really is for anyone. Some poses are hard, but I’ve learned over the year the value of modifying a pose to fit your skill level. Forcing into any pose often just makes the whole practice worthless. Learning to back off and work on proper alignment and breath is far more important. Gradually, you get better too. Although I still can’t do most arm balances, a headstand, handstand, or anything that is crazy. But I can do poses pretty easily that I at one time found strenuous.

I love doing yoga through pregnancy too. It’s easy to modify things with a growing belly and still get a decent workout in. But mostly now, I focus on more restorative practices. Nothing hard, just work on releasing on the muscles that get all tight due to a huge tummy.

I have taken one yoga class, two years ago in college. But mostly I like doing it home and stream videos offline. There is tons out there. Yoga Today was one of the first sites I found, and I still love all the teachers. I usually do the free class there every week. You Tube has a lot, including some shorter practices from Yoga Today, and lots of other teachers. This teacher is great for getting a good sweat. I’ve done some videos off of Yoga Journal too. There is also a series on BYU TV I visit. (That’s where my class today came from. They have pregnant ladies on there too, which is nice when you are pregnant.) Hulu actually has quite a few as well and you get commericial breaks which can be a nice thing.

Peter sometimes joins me if he’s up early. Mostly this means I don’t get as good a practice in, but he can do a great downward facing dog. And he loves getting out his own mat.

Good Life

We just had Valentine’s day. Both Joe and I don’t generally don’t do a lot, nor would the budget allow for anything extravagant. I went and visited a friend in the morning, and when I came back Joe had left me this sweet little progression of notes:

There was love music playing too. It was adorable and made my day. We did have coffee cake (which tastes better in the south, so does corn bread: the humidity makes it less crumbly), and made a cheesecake. The cheesecake was almost not to be. Joe and I went to go make it and discovered that graahmn crackers could go rancid. The crust was made with animal crackers instead, and turned out just fine.

My medicaid application finally went through which now means I actually have insurance for my kids. For all those who want socialized medicine, try going through a medicaid application. Lots of waiting in line, calling, and worrying in order to get approved. But I am grateful they have the program, because otherwise I would have no way to insure my children.

Also this is a tip for very pregnant women–wearing comfortable clothes makes you feel ever so much better. Yesterday I put on a pair of pants that just didn’t fit and I hated pregnancy all day. Over-the-belly pants are the only way to go for me right now. I am very large. Still a month to go (more or less).

Playtime

Peter has discovered the joy of playing in his room with his toys. He would spend hours playing pretend with mostly cars. He’ll say “Mommy this one” and give me a car. We will then spend the next forever playing with the cars. Sometimes I’ll bring in Legos or other toys to break up the long stretches of just cars and Peter asking, “What doing?”  It’s fun, but gets boring pretty quickly too. Joe is actually a little more patient with it than I am.

We put up names for the kid’s room today. Curtis will actually be staying in our room at first, which leaves lot of room in Peter’s room for toys right now. I finally found a cheap rocking chair too; it’s probably the most comfortable seat in the house. Maybe I should use it at the computer instead of the chair I’m in now that is giving me backaches.

I’m tired of pregnancy, but I’m not ready for a baby either. Life is good, really, but I have a lot of worries in my head and it’s hard to just let things be and enjoy myself.

Spring Gardening Fever

I was bitten by a spring gardening bug at 3:00 in the morning.  I’ve noticed lately that there are signs of spring. Plants are beginning to flower, like flowering cherries and forsythias. My husband brought me home a daffodil one day. It’s a little early, even for a slightly warmer climate than I’m used to, but whatever the calender says, spring is rapidly approaching.

Up until now, I haven’t cared much about the plants around me. I’m surrounded by boring commercial landscapes that are not inspiring. At 3:00 in the morning I started to dream about plants. I wanted to go and find all the plants beginning to bloom and take loads of pictures. I woke up, a little confused about the fact that I had relocated to Georgia and couldn’t go down the road to a neighbor’s garden to find plants in bloom. My mind finally straightened out, but I couldn’t get plants off my mind.

I finally got out of bed and started looking up everything I’ve been ignorning. I looked up some evergreen shrubs, like aucuba and winter daphne, that I’ve noticed on my apartment grounds. I googled where local garden centers are. I subscribed to several local gardening blogs. I reserved a few Dirr books at the library. I normally don’t wake up super early, obsessed with plants, but apparently something in me had been missing gardening. The few glances I’ve seen of spring blooming plants awakened a dormant gardening spirit. It was fun, but now it needs to quiet down so I can sleep.

Have you noticed spring coming?

Hopefully it’s not keeping you awake at night.