Holidays

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Christmas. We did all our normal traditions. On Christmas Eve, my parents and sister came over. We walked up to the outdoor nativity and listened to the narration, and then came back home for presents. Christmas Day was Santa, more presents, and than lunch with Joe’s parents. I think the kids all liked their presents, and we all had a good time. My present was a yoga sling, and everyone has had fun with that.

On New Year’s Eve we had a party that night that involved popper fireworks, balloons and a movie. We had a countdown at about 8:30 with the children and set them off to bed. It was a lot of fun.

My sister came up the next day to visit. The high that day was 20 degrees. We were a bit nervous about going sledding but decided to go for it anyway. After a bit of a cold start, we found a hill that was better suited for our kids and stayed far long than I anticipated. Some of the adults even got a little snowshoeing in around the area.

Snowman

The crafts I do have to be quick, simple and cheap. Otherwise, I lack the desire and patience needed to finish the craft well.

I made snowman kits as gifts to a few of our friends and neighbors.

The kit had a scarf cut from some spare knit fabric, buttons, a carrot and coal eyes. I was quite proud of my eyes, although they are pretty redneck. I made them out of black duct tape.

Stair Teaser

In our home, there were the most awful stairs ever. They are the stairs that kicked off our re-model project because the tall people living here were tired of hitting their heads or ducking. The stairs that have been occasionally slipped on with cheap carpet. The stairs that have walls that nobody bothered to do more than put on a coat of primer, not even adding a layer of texture or mud.

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After  we lowered them down so we didn’t hit our head, I decided I did not want to keep big-box special awful tan carpet on them. I had seen blog post of people who removed the carpet and had painted or stained them, and thought we could do the same. This is what we were left with after carpet removal:

Painting them didn’t seem like a good option. They were not in good shape. There were gaps, uneven boards, rough surfaces. I had looked at stair restoration kits, but they added up to more than I wanted to spend.

I despaired for bit, but got creative and found a solution. First of all, Joe attacked the stairs with a hammer and took out no less than fifty nails that some idiot, incompetent or drunk construction worker with a nail gun had nailed in our stairs with little regard to where they went. They were not holding anything together, but were making the stairs quite squeaky.

After nailing in less than half that amount, almost all the gaps in the stairs were gone, and the stairs no longer sounded like stepping on a mouse nest.

Joe and I took a trip to big-box store. (It was a date with a babysitter, because doing so with kids is a nightmare. But then I feel sheepish that my dates are to stores, because that’s what my parents did growing up and I thought it was kinda lame, but now I’m doing it.) Then I did my work of taking the kids away for an entire day and Joe worked on the stairs and I came back to this:

Out of all the things we’ve done to the house, this was probably the biggest transformation. It’s not done yet at all; one main reason is because the can of stain we bought was mis-labeled, halting the process of staining the new treads.

I watched stair kit restoration videos, and checked online stock and googled a bit. I came up with the idea of resurfacing the back with wainscot beadboard (about $25 for the whole sheet and we had extra), and putting on new stair treads (about $100 for pine stair treads). The stair treads did raise up the stairs by one inch, but there was actually an extra inch at the top stair anyway after creating the new landing.

I’ve got more in store for these stairs, just as soon as we get the right stain color.

Snow

It’s snowed. A lot. Most people love it or hate it. I could get annoyed at the slippery ice, dangerous roads, and the need to bundle up if I go somewhere.

But there is quiet and white and beauty and I choose to love it. I love going out, often in the dark, when the snow is lightly coming down and covering everything with a blanket. Everything is still, movement is slow, soft. It is peaceful, clean. I love to shovel snow, for the opportunity to work outside even when there is no gardening to do.

The kids love it too. They bundle on snow gear, or ignore the fact that it is freezing and go outside without coats on. They’ve shoveled paths through the yard, come in crying because they have snow down their coat only to shortly go back outside. We’ve sled down hills together, and even Henry was crying when it was time to go home. Even though he was cold, he wanted to sled down the hill one more time, and faster was better. SAMSUNG CAMERA PICTURESSAMSUNG CAMERA PICTURESSAMSUNG CAMERA PICTURESSAMSUNG CAMERA PICTURES

Coats

We keep all the coats, backpacks, etc in the kitchen. It was messy, hard to find anything, and it didn’t look great.

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I had thrown up some coat racks and shelves without any real thought. There was a lot of room for improvement. First step was to get rid of all the mess.

And take down all the stuff that wasn’t working.

After brainstorming for awhile, I decided to use premade crates that are available at craft stores. The kids and I painted them with paint I had on hand. It was a good project for the kdis because I wanted a rough finish paint job anyway. I sanded it a bit after. We hung up the crates and I added some coat hooks.

Looks great, but will it effectively hold all our junk… during winter, when we all have multiple coats, etc?

It’s doing a pretty good job. Every person has their own crate, with one extra that is mostly used as a charging station. I think it looks great and more importantly it is doing a much better job at organizing all our junk. Not bad for a project that cost about $60 and only took 2-3 hours.

Santa

PB loves Santa this year. He didn’t ask for much, but he is so excited that he can get candy and presents for Christmas. C doesn’t care much, and H is oblivious.

I remember being told outright that Santa wasn’t real when I was about eight, and I don’t enjoy the memory. So with my kids, I don’t ever say Santa is real or even fake. I let them decide. For instance, if PB asks a question about Santa I’ll turn the question back to him,  just say it’s magic, use terms like, “I like to think so,” or even “pretend” when they ask hard questions. I think kids want to pretend it’s real. As a parent, I want to allow them that opportunity. But I also think kids never really completely believe. I don’t want to ever outright lie to my children and I’m not going out of way to convince them that something that is not real actually is. 

Christmas Decoration

The only holiday I decorate for is Christmas, and even then I don’t do very much. I do love the few things I have. It’s fun to slightly change my home just for one month.

We have this nativity my mother-in-law crocheted.

The Christmas tree, with the bottom part purposefully cut off because I have a newly walking baby and it’s always a mess down there.

These candy chains are my favorite. One chocolate kiss per day between now and Christmas Eve. Unless you are three year old and lack impulse control and had to have your candy chain taken down because you ate half of it.

To make these chain, just hot glue the candy onto the ribbon. It’s really easy, and they are a lot of fun. Who doesn’t want a piece of chocolate everyday?

Thanksgiving

On Thanksgiving I thought of my home, filled with things I love. My greatest blessing is my family. I never get bored, I’m never lonely and I almost always feel very loved.

Besides my family, I have a beautiful (or working to be beautiful) spacious home, a garden, chickens, healthy food. My husband has great employment close to our home, I get to be home with my children, and we are all healthy.

 

 

Bathroom

The bathroom is done! This wasn’t a major remodel, but the bathroom had some issues we needed to address.SAMSUNG CAMERA PICTURES

First off, it was tiny. There wasn’t even enough room for a regular door to open. When we moved in, there was a bi-fold closet door on the bathroom. Not ideal, even less so when my kids kept smashing their fingers in it. I took it off and put up a curtain. That’s probably even less  ideal, but at least the kids weren’t getting their fingers smashed.

Our solution was to extend the bathroom into the hall. The old hall only went to the bathroom anyway. I gained a spot to put in a vanity area and significantly increased the size of the bathroom. And we could put in a door. That closes. And locks. (Because of duct-work, the door has to swing outwards, but it’s not a big deal.)

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Besides moving the doorway, we also re-did the flooring. I think the easiest way to make flooring look cheap is to put in stick-on tiles poorly. Which is what we had.

So we tore them up to the concrete.concrete

And we refinished the concrete.

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I really love it and the plan is to finish the concrete this way in other parts of the basement as well.  It’s not perfect: this was my first time doing the concrete that way, and I made a few mistakes. I went ahead and started small, so I can now do the rest of the concrete better.

We finished the concrete by using a black concrete stain, putting on grey decorative flakes, and a couple coats of wet-look concrete sealer. (All Behr products from Home Depot.) It was an inexpensive flooring option, we always have the option to go back and put different flooring on if it doesn’t wear well. So far so good though.